1 00:00:06,923 --> 00:00:10,260 The pay gap between men and women around the world 2 00:00:10,343 --> 00:00:13,388 looks a little different depending on how you measure it. 3 00:00:15,849 --> 00:00:20,437 In Poland, women earn 91 cents for every dollar a man does. 4 00:00:20,520 --> 00:00:23,148 In Israel, it's 81 cents. 5 00:00:23,231 --> 00:00:27,110 In South Korea, women make just 65 cents on the dollar. 6 00:00:27,193 --> 00:00:30,864 We know that just freeing the potential of women, 7 00:00:30,947 --> 00:00:35,910 that is the fastest multiplier that we have in terms of our growth. 8 00:00:35,994 --> 00:00:39,456 That is such an accelerator in eradicating poverty. 9 00:00:39,539 --> 00:00:42,459 When you go to the store, you don't get a woman's discount. 10 00:00:42,542 --> 00:00:44,794 You have to pay the same as everybody else. 11 00:00:44,878 --> 00:00:47,714 So that comes out of your family income. 12 00:00:48,173 --> 00:00:50,383 When someone mentions the pay gap, 13 00:00:50,467 --> 00:00:52,385 you often hear another phrase as well. 14 00:00:52,469 --> 00:00:54,345 Equal pay... For equal work. 15 00:00:54,429 --> 00:00:57,098 Equal pay... For equal work. 16 00:00:57,182 --> 00:00:59,809 It makes it sound like women are paid less 17 00:00:59,893 --> 00:01:01,394 for doing the same job as men, 18 00:01:01,478 --> 00:01:04,189 which means women are paid less just for being women. 19 00:01:04,856 --> 00:01:07,525 There's a word for that, discrimination. 20 00:01:07,609 --> 00:01:11,196 But a huge body of research from many countries shows 21 00:01:11,279 --> 00:01:14,491 that overt pay discrimination only potentially explains 22 00:01:14,574 --> 00:01:16,409 a small part of the gender pay gap. 23 00:01:16,493 --> 00:01:21,331 It's a real number, but it really, actually tells you almost nothing 24 00:01:21,414 --> 00:01:25,210 about the real disparity between men and women. 25 00:01:25,293 --> 00:01:28,671 Women aren't looking for a leg up. They want equal opportunity 26 00:01:28,755 --> 00:01:31,049 and equal pay. Big difference. 27 00:01:31,132 --> 00:01:34,094 If you want to change culture, you can't sit down and wait. 28 00:01:34,177 --> 00:01:35,762 You must do something about it. 29 00:01:35,845 --> 00:01:39,307 So, if it's not all about discrimination, 30 00:01:39,390 --> 00:01:43,853 why are women around the world paid so much less than men? 31 00:01:43,937 --> 00:01:48,316 The woman who works at a career has chosen to ignore that the woman's place... 32 00:01:50,318 --> 00:01:52,946 It doesn't matter if you have a female or male body, 33 00:01:53,029 --> 00:01:54,697 they should be paid accordingly. 34 00:01:56,616 --> 00:01:59,035 I see some really advanced clerical work. 35 00:01:59,119 --> 00:02:02,205 Pays women 80 cents for every dollar it pays men. 36 00:02:02,288 --> 00:02:05,375 This is our time to stand up to have our voices heard. 37 00:02:05,458 --> 00:02:07,127 And women will lead this country. 38 00:02:07,210 --> 00:02:08,753 That's what this is all about. 39 00:02:14,425 --> 00:02:18,096 The story in the United States is similar to a lot of countries. 40 00:02:18,179 --> 00:02:21,391 It wasn't very long ago that most women, especially white women, 41 00:02:21,474 --> 00:02:23,601 didn't work outside the home at all. 42 00:02:24,144 --> 00:02:26,020 When you go back to the 1950s, 43 00:02:26,104 --> 00:02:29,190 there weren't very many women in the workforce. 44 00:02:29,274 --> 00:02:33,695 The women there were were often not as well educated as the men. 45 00:02:33,778 --> 00:02:35,947 They either didn't finish college, 46 00:02:36,030 --> 00:02:38,992 or they didn't have the same credentials in college, 47 00:02:39,075 --> 00:02:40,743 or hadn't gone to college at all. 48 00:02:40,827 --> 00:02:43,997 Most of the women in my neighborhood did not work. 49 00:02:44,080 --> 00:02:45,290 My mother did not work. 50 00:02:45,373 --> 00:02:50,545 The only women that I saw in professional roles were teachers. 51 00:02:50,628 --> 00:02:52,714 Most women didn't get that far. 52 00:02:52,797 --> 00:02:56,968 Seventy percent had menial jobs on factory assembly lines or in offices. 53 00:02:57,051 --> 00:03:00,805 Women workers don't mind routine, repetitive work, 54 00:03:00,889 --> 00:03:04,142 and they're good on work that requires high finger dexterity. 55 00:03:04,225 --> 00:03:07,979 People understood that a woman might need to earn a little money, 56 00:03:08,062 --> 00:03:09,647 but a career? That was for men. 57 00:03:09,731 --> 00:03:12,609 Your high score on the clerical aptitude test 58 00:03:12,692 --> 00:03:15,195 indicates that you can become a good secretary. 59 00:03:15,695 --> 00:03:18,114 Discrimination was also totally legal, 60 00:03:18,198 --> 00:03:22,118 allowing employers to put out job listings for men only. 61 00:03:22,660 --> 00:03:23,953 When I was growing up, 62 00:03:24,037 --> 00:03:26,998 I knew one woman lawyer. One. 63 00:03:27,081 --> 00:03:28,875 I never met a woman doctor. 64 00:03:28,958 --> 00:03:32,086 I couldn't have even imagined women engineers. 65 00:03:32,503 --> 00:03:35,798 The pay gap hovered around 60 cents on the dollar. 66 00:03:35,882 --> 00:03:38,468 It was caused by several interconnected factors, 67 00:03:38,551 --> 00:03:40,553 like lower female education rates, 68 00:03:40,637 --> 00:03:43,223 women not being in the workforce in big numbers, 69 00:03:43,306 --> 00:03:45,808 grouping in traditionally feminine industries, 70 00:03:45,892 --> 00:03:49,229 and the fact that it was perfectly legal to pay women less, 71 00:03:49,312 --> 00:03:52,941 and then a slew of cultural norms about gender roles and aptitudes. 72 00:03:53,024 --> 00:03:55,568 These were the major explanations for the pay gap. 73 00:03:56,778 --> 00:04:00,114 And then, in just a few decades, things changed. 74 00:04:00,198 --> 00:04:03,284 Sisterhood is powerful! Join us now! 75 00:04:03,368 --> 00:04:06,162 The battle cry of the women's liberation movement 76 00:04:06,246 --> 00:04:08,539 rings out down New York's Fifth Avenue. 77 00:04:08,623 --> 00:04:12,126 First woman to receive the highest honor of the National... 78 00:04:12,210 --> 00:04:14,587 The House broke into spontaneous applause. 79 00:04:14,671 --> 00:04:16,673 Benazir Bhutto, the new prime minister. 80 00:04:16,756 --> 00:04:19,467 This is the first American woman in space. 81 00:04:20,677 --> 00:04:23,096 First woman nominated to the Supreme Court. 82 00:04:23,179 --> 00:04:26,015 First woman ever to run on a Presidential ticket. 83 00:04:26,099 --> 00:04:29,978 My candidacy has said to women, "The doors of opportunity are open." 84 00:04:30,061 --> 00:04:33,564 Women are out-earning men in college degrees and advanced degrees. 85 00:04:33,648 --> 00:04:36,442 Women are engaged to bring the next generation. 86 00:04:36,526 --> 00:04:38,152 For the first time in history, 87 00:04:38,236 --> 00:04:41,155 women are actually outnumbering men in the workplace. 88 00:04:42,156 --> 00:04:44,659 This was just a sea change 89 00:04:44,742 --> 00:04:49,289 to see women competing for scholarships I couldn't have competed for, 90 00:04:49,372 --> 00:04:52,375 going to schools that were not open to women, 91 00:04:52,458 --> 00:04:54,544 taking on jobs that were closed to women. 92 00:04:54,627 --> 00:04:59,382 That's changed... Just... Unbelievably. 93 00:04:59,465 --> 00:05:02,802 Many of the factors that were causing the pay gap shrunk, 94 00:05:02,885 --> 00:05:04,220 except for one. 95 00:05:04,304 --> 00:05:08,933 But what has stayed is that women bear children. 96 00:05:09,017 --> 00:05:11,561 They are assumed to be the primary caregiver. 97 00:05:12,020 --> 00:05:15,732 Even as women became doctors, and lawyers, and heads of state, 98 00:05:15,815 --> 00:05:18,151 the popular expectation remained in society 99 00:05:18,234 --> 00:05:21,446 that they would still do most of the work of raising children. 100 00:05:21,529 --> 00:05:23,906 In the United States, in the UK, even in progressive Scandinavian countries, 101 00:05:26,451 --> 00:05:29,203 surveys today show only a fraction of the population 102 00:05:29,287 --> 00:05:32,582 thinks women should work full-time when they have young kids. 103 00:05:32,665 --> 00:05:35,376 When it comes to men, the expectation flips. 104 00:05:36,044 --> 00:05:40,048 Seventy percent of Americans think that new fathers should work full-time. 105 00:05:40,131 --> 00:05:42,759 There still is a considerable percentage of people, 106 00:05:42,842 --> 00:05:45,970 not just in our country, but around the world, who really think 107 00:05:46,054 --> 00:05:48,723 once you're a mom, you shouldn't be in the workplace. 108 00:05:48,806 --> 00:05:52,935 And that's been proven wrong, short-sighted over and over again. I learned, after I went back, when my time was constrained, 109 00:05:57,231 --> 00:05:59,233 not by my employer, but by me, 110 00:05:59,317 --> 00:06:03,404 because I wanted to get home to that baby and spend time with her, 111 00:06:03,488 --> 00:06:06,949 that I could actually get a lot of work done in 15 minutes. 112 00:06:07,033 --> 00:06:10,411 Like, I would take any opportunity to work. 113 00:06:10,495 --> 00:06:16,209 I've become, I think, a much better employee since I've had children. 114 00:06:16,292 --> 00:06:20,046 Even when a mother does work full-time just like her male partner, she spends nine hours a week more than him on childcare and housework. 115 00:06:24,509 --> 00:06:26,511 Over a year, that's the equivalent 116 00:06:26,594 --> 00:06:29,013 of an extra three months of a full-time job. 117 00:06:29,097 --> 00:06:31,474 This is the heart of the pay gap, 118 00:06:31,557 --> 00:06:34,268 and to understand why, it helps to follow the story 119 00:06:34,352 --> 00:06:37,021 of a young couple just starting out on their careers. 120 00:06:37,105 --> 00:06:40,441 I often think about the trajectories 121 00:06:40,525 --> 00:06:42,652 of the many law students I taught. 122 00:06:42,735 --> 00:06:44,737 They look exactly the same. 123 00:06:44,821 --> 00:06:48,574 They have the same educational record, the same experience. 124 00:06:48,658 --> 00:06:51,994 And then you watch what starts to happen 125 00:06:52,078 --> 00:06:56,499 as they hit their late 20s, early 30s, childbearing years, 126 00:06:56,582 --> 00:06:59,335 and they start thinking about having children. 127 00:06:59,419 --> 00:07:03,256 If they have children, at that point, somebody has to be home. 128 00:07:03,339 --> 00:07:05,508 You can have lots of childcare, 129 00:07:05,591 --> 00:07:12,265 but a parent needs to be at home for those situations that needs a parent. 130 00:07:13,474 --> 00:07:15,476 So he's likely to get promoted. 131 00:07:17,645 --> 00:07:22,233 She, on the other hand, has had to turn down some of those assignments, 132 00:07:22,316 --> 00:07:24,318 say no to some of that travel. 133 00:07:24,402 --> 00:07:27,447 So eight years out, ten years out, 134 00:07:27,530 --> 00:07:31,993 typically, he's then a partner, and he can do lots of things from there. 135 00:07:32,076 --> 00:07:35,455 She hasn't made partner. She's not earning the same. 136 00:07:35,538 --> 00:07:38,749 She's working flexibly, or even part-time, 137 00:07:38,833 --> 00:07:43,045 and from there, her earning potential and his just keep diverging. 138 00:07:44,005 --> 00:07:47,300 This is the story the data tells us in study after study 139 00:07:47,383 --> 00:07:49,218 in a variety of different countries. 140 00:07:49,302 --> 00:07:51,512 One Danish study did an especially good job 141 00:07:51,596 --> 00:07:54,098 of showing how childbirth affects earnings. 142 00:07:54,849 --> 00:07:56,893 Here's a man's pay trajectory. 143 00:07:57,435 --> 00:07:59,604 Watch what happens when his child is born. 144 00:08:00,813 --> 00:08:03,024 Here's the woman's trajectory. 145 00:08:04,192 --> 00:08:07,195 So then if you compare the earnings of a woman with kids 146 00:08:07,278 --> 00:08:09,197 to a woman without kids, 147 00:08:09,280 --> 00:08:12,575 you can see that the pay gap isn't as much about being a woman 148 00:08:12,658 --> 00:08:14,827 as it is about being a mom. 149 00:08:14,911 --> 00:08:19,540 The gender gap really is between women with children and everybody else. 150 00:08:19,624 --> 00:08:26,047 Women who are not caregivers earn 96% of every dollar. 151 00:08:26,130 --> 00:08:28,132 It's a motherhood penalty. 152 00:08:28,216 --> 00:08:30,885 Some mothers don't see this as a problem. 153 00:08:30,968 --> 00:08:33,387 They want to spend more time with their children. 154 00:08:33,471 --> 00:08:35,431 They don't mind if it means making less. 155 00:08:35,515 --> 00:08:39,227 Some women make a job choice based on the fact they want to have families. 156 00:08:39,310 --> 00:08:40,686 Nothing wrong with that. 157 00:08:40,770 --> 00:08:45,733 Presenting it as, you know, a penalty is kind of denying 158 00:08:45,816 --> 00:08:49,403 first, that women make that choice, 159 00:08:49,487 --> 00:08:52,740 but also that there's some extreme value... 160 00:08:52,823 --> 00:08:56,911 Not just for the children, the family, but also for the women making that choice. 161 00:08:56,994 --> 00:09:02,083 A pay gap based on choices, you know, is different 162 00:09:02,166 --> 00:09:04,877 than a pay gap that's just because you're a woman, 163 00:09:04,961 --> 00:09:08,839 and you just can't get equal pay for doing the same thing a guy does. 164 00:09:08,923 --> 00:09:12,343 But often, women and men don't get the same choices. 165 00:09:12,426 --> 00:09:17,014 In the US, there are three times as many single moms as single dads. 166 00:09:17,098 --> 00:09:19,684 And growing up, most of us get the message 167 00:09:19,767 --> 00:09:22,770 that caregiving is more of a woman's job than a man's. 168 00:09:22,853 --> 00:09:27,733 Take, for example, a 1980s advice column about how to decorate your desk at work 169 00:09:27,817 --> 00:09:29,443 that still rings true today. 170 00:09:29,527 --> 00:09:32,530 Someone wrote in and said, "I've just gotten a big promotion, 171 00:09:32,613 --> 00:09:35,116 so I'll have my own work space for the first time. 172 00:09:35,199 --> 00:09:37,952 How should I decorate it?" And here was the answer, 173 00:09:38,035 --> 00:09:41,581 "I can't tell from your initials whether you're a man or a woman, 174 00:09:41,664 --> 00:09:44,208 and the answer depends upon which you are. 175 00:09:44,292 --> 00:09:48,296 If you're a man, and you have a family, plaster your office with family pictures, 176 00:09:48,379 --> 00:09:51,048 because people will think you're a very good provider. If you're a woman, and you have children, 177 00:09:53,884 --> 00:09:57,555 don't put pictures up in your office of your family, 178 00:09:57,638 --> 00:10:01,058 because people will think you can't keep your mind on your work." 179 00:10:01,142 --> 00:10:04,729 The roots of this issue go deep to how we understand family 180 00:10:04,812 --> 00:10:06,397 and mothers and fathers. 181 00:10:06,480 --> 00:10:08,774 It's why the gap is so hard to close. 182 00:10:09,817 --> 00:10:11,319 But it's not impossible. 183 00:10:11,861 --> 00:10:14,071 Two countries, Iceland and Rwanda, 184 00:10:14,155 --> 00:10:17,908 have almost closed their wage gaps, and in just a few decades. 185 00:10:17,992 --> 00:10:21,120 And looking at these two cases reveals important lessons 186 00:10:21,203 --> 00:10:23,456 about what it takes to create a society 187 00:10:23,539 --> 00:10:26,000 where women are paid almost the same as men. 188 00:10:26,667 --> 00:10:29,462 Rwanda is one of the poorest nations on Earth, 189 00:10:29,545 --> 00:10:33,341 and until just a few decades ago, women were denied many basic rights. 190 00:10:33,424 --> 00:10:35,134 Before 1994, 191 00:10:35,217 --> 00:10:37,595 women were not allowed to speak in public. Married women were not allowed 192 00:10:40,139 --> 00:10:44,018 to open a bank account without the authorization of their husbands. 193 00:10:44,101 --> 00:10:47,188 But in 1994, everything changed. 194 00:10:47,772 --> 00:10:51,776 The fifth day of carnage and bloodshed in the Central African nation of Rwanda. 195 00:10:51,859 --> 00:10:54,153 Thousands of people are feared dead tonight... 196 00:10:54,236 --> 00:10:57,490 The fiercest fighting yet in the Central African nation of Rwanda. 197 00:10:57,573 --> 00:11:01,035 In just three months, 800,000 people were murdered. 198 00:11:01,452 --> 00:11:03,913 Losing my dad and my three brothers, 199 00:11:03,996 --> 00:11:06,374 I survived with my mom and my sister. 200 00:11:06,457 --> 00:11:11,212 After the violence, the Rwandan population was 60 to 70% women. 201 00:11:11,295 --> 00:11:15,841 It destroyed completely the social fabric. 202 00:11:15,925 --> 00:11:20,304 You do anything you can do to survive. 203 00:11:20,721 --> 00:11:22,431 The shortage of men meant 204 00:11:22,515 --> 00:11:25,434 that women had to step into the workforce in huge numbers, 205 00:11:25,518 --> 00:11:28,813 taking on jobs that a year earlier would have been unheard of. 206 00:11:28,896 --> 00:11:34,819 You'll find a woman who was police, for instance, or in the military. 207 00:11:34,902 --> 00:11:39,240 Gradually, women were found, like, being a mayor, a governor. 208 00:11:39,323 --> 00:11:44,120 Women actually were helping to change, you know, the country. 209 00:11:44,203 --> 00:11:47,790 The new government realized that to rebuild Rwanda, 210 00:11:47,873 --> 00:11:49,542 they needed women. 211 00:11:49,625 --> 00:11:52,545 So they immediately implemented a host of new policies 212 00:11:52,628 --> 00:11:55,214 aimed at getting more women into positions of power. 213 00:11:55,798 --> 00:11:57,800 The preamble to the new Constitution 214 00:11:57,883 --> 00:12:01,137 included a commitment to equal rights between men and women, 215 00:12:01,220 --> 00:12:06,475 stipulating that 30% of representatives at all levels of government be women. 216 00:12:06,600 --> 00:12:10,813 Today in Rwanda, women hold 61% of the seats in Parliament, 217 00:12:10,896 --> 00:12:13,065 the highest in the world. 218 00:12:13,149 --> 00:12:16,444 They have a labor force participation rate of 88%. 219 00:12:17,069 --> 00:12:19,363 Rwanda is one of the few countries 220 00:12:19,447 --> 00:12:23,200 where a woman is just as likely as a man to work outside the home. 221 00:12:23,284 --> 00:12:26,287 The Constitution also created the position of gender monitor, 222 00:12:26,370 --> 00:12:28,622 who ensures that public programs are complying 223 00:12:28,706 --> 00:12:30,875 with the country's goals of gender equality. 224 00:12:30,958 --> 00:12:33,085 A young girl in Rwanda doesn't think 225 00:12:33,169 --> 00:12:36,547 that there is anything that she's not allowed to do. 226 00:12:36,630 --> 00:12:38,507 They don't have to grow in a system 227 00:12:38,591 --> 00:12:41,135 where they think there will be a ceiling somewhere. 228 00:12:41,218 --> 00:12:43,637 This cultural shift around gender began 229 00:12:43,721 --> 00:12:46,265 as a survival mechanism after the genocide. 230 00:12:46,348 --> 00:12:48,768 But thanks to aggressive policies, 231 00:12:48,851 --> 00:12:51,937 Rwanda has achieved lasting progress in closing the gap. The World Economic Forum puts Rwanda's pay gap 232 00:12:55,191 --> 00:12:57,109 at 86 cents on the dollar. 233 00:12:59,153 --> 00:13:02,865 Much further north, the small island nation of Iceland 234 00:13:02,948 --> 00:13:06,076 has also made major strides towards closing the pay gap. 235 00:13:06,535 --> 00:13:08,954 But they took a different path towards equality. 236 00:13:09,038 --> 00:13:11,999 The real turning point came in 1975. 237 00:13:17,546 --> 00:13:19,507 The year before I was born, 238 00:13:19,590 --> 00:13:22,343 the women of Iceland actually left their workplaces 239 00:13:22,426 --> 00:13:25,930 and went out in the streets in order to object to the gender pay gap. 240 00:13:30,893 --> 00:13:35,397 Without them in their jobs, businesses could not stay open, 241 00:13:35,481 --> 00:13:38,025 and it started a huge grassroots wave 242 00:13:38,108 --> 00:13:40,861 that, you know, slowly started changing society. 243 00:13:45,533 --> 00:13:47,326 The first result was really 244 00:13:47,409 --> 00:13:50,412 that women became a lot more visible in the political field. 245 00:13:51,121 --> 00:13:53,791 In 1980, five years after the strike, 246 00:13:53,874 --> 00:13:57,920 Iceland voted in the world's first democratically-elected female president. 247 00:13:58,003 --> 00:14:02,383 Iceland. Hurray! Hurray! 248 00:14:02,466 --> 00:14:06,095 The number of women in the Icelandic Parliament skyrocketed. 249 00:14:06,178 --> 00:14:10,140 Then really, in the years to follow, you see policy changes. 250 00:14:10,724 --> 00:14:14,395 In 1981, Iceland passed a law that required employers 251 00:14:14,478 --> 00:14:17,356 to provide new mothers three months of paid leave. 252 00:14:17,439 --> 00:14:20,234 That was extended to six months in 1988. 253 00:14:20,860 --> 00:14:24,280 Guaranteed maternity leave was a novel idea at the time, 254 00:14:24,363 --> 00:14:27,199 and Iceland's was one of the most generous in the world. 255 00:14:29,535 --> 00:14:31,579 But as progressive as this law was, 256 00:14:31,662 --> 00:14:35,541 it encouraged moms to stay home while new fathers kept working, 257 00:14:35,624 --> 00:14:38,669 reinforcing cultural norms at the heart of the pay gap 258 00:14:38,752 --> 00:14:41,255 that women are caregivers, and men are not. 259 00:14:42,339 --> 00:14:44,341 So lawmakers did something radical. 260 00:14:44,758 --> 00:14:47,428 What if they gave parental leave to dads 261 00:14:47,511 --> 00:14:49,722 and made it a use it or lose it benefit, 262 00:14:49,805 --> 00:14:51,891 so dads would feel pressure to take it? 263 00:14:51,974 --> 00:14:54,727 Iceland passed that law in the year 2000. 264 00:14:54,810 --> 00:14:58,439 Obligational paternity leave has made a difference 265 00:14:59,148 --> 00:15:01,984 in the culture of men in Iceland, 266 00:15:02,067 --> 00:15:03,569 a very positive difference. 267 00:15:03,652 --> 00:15:05,487 The men of the youngest generations, 268 00:15:05,571 --> 00:15:09,283 they expect to take time off to take care of their children. 269 00:15:09,366 --> 00:15:11,368 Which really makes all the difference, 270 00:15:11,952 --> 00:15:14,121 both at home, but also in the job market, 271 00:15:14,204 --> 00:15:16,040 because now you can actually expect, 272 00:15:16,123 --> 00:15:18,959 if you're hiring a young man or a young woman, 273 00:15:19,043 --> 00:15:21,795 both will take maternity or paternity leave. 274 00:15:22,212 --> 00:15:26,634 In 2004, the pay gap in Iceland was about the same as it was in the US, 275 00:15:26,717 --> 00:15:28,510 but in the years that followed, 276 00:15:28,594 --> 00:15:31,263 Iceland's gender pay gap shrank, to where today, 277 00:15:31,347 --> 00:15:35,100 women in Iceland make about 90 cents on every dollar a man does. 278 00:15:36,894 --> 00:15:40,105 So we know that narrowing the gender wage gap isn't impossible. 279 00:15:40,522 --> 00:15:43,943 But these kind of family-friendly policies might come with tradeoffs 280 00:15:44,026 --> 00:15:45,569 that we don't immediately see. 281 00:15:45,653 --> 00:15:48,072 These are benefits. 282 00:15:48,155 --> 00:15:51,659 Having more of these choices available are great things. 283 00:15:51,742 --> 00:15:55,663 We should not expect them to come for free. 284 00:15:55,746 --> 00:15:58,248 Some women elect to have children. Some don't. 285 00:15:58,374 --> 00:16:01,126 And some men elect to have children. Some don't. 286 00:16:01,210 --> 00:16:04,296 Can I look at the person who elected not to have children 287 00:16:04,380 --> 00:16:06,548 and say, "You gotta pay for it in some way"? 288 00:16:06,632 --> 00:16:09,551 If a mother takes off a lot of time, 289 00:16:09,635 --> 00:16:13,722 what does the small business person do who only has three employees? 290 00:16:13,806 --> 00:16:15,516 I don't want to penalize a mother, 291 00:16:15,599 --> 00:16:18,310 but you don't want to penalize a small business owner. 292 00:16:18,394 --> 00:16:21,855 It's not the same with a giant corporation, 293 00:16:21,939 --> 00:16:24,233 because they have enormously more flexibility 294 00:16:24,316 --> 00:16:27,194 in filling positions, and it doesn't hurt the bottom line. 295 00:16:27,277 --> 00:16:28,696 While it may not be 296 00:16:28,779 --> 00:16:31,156 the biggest reason women are paid less than men, 297 00:16:31,240 --> 00:16:34,326 and it varies significantly across countries and industries, 298 00:16:34,410 --> 00:16:36,996 women still don't get equal pay for equal work. 299 00:16:37,079 --> 00:16:41,458 There is an irreducible percentage that is due to discrimination. 300 00:16:41,542 --> 00:16:48,173 It's just very clear that much of what the workplace favors... 301 00:16:49,091 --> 00:16:50,009 Favors men. 302 00:16:50,092 --> 00:16:52,720 I've watched it in many different settings 303 00:16:52,803 --> 00:16:55,681 where, you know, the guy you talk sports with, 304 00:16:55,764 --> 00:16:57,433 the guy you go golfing with, 305 00:16:57,558 --> 00:17:01,645 he's somebody you get more familiar with, and you're comfortable around. 306 00:17:01,729 --> 00:17:05,232 But that kind of discrimination has declined over the decades 307 00:17:05,315 --> 00:17:08,694 as more women entered the workplace, and the culture shifted. 308 00:17:08,777 --> 00:17:12,364 Changing the expectation that women should be the ones to raise children 309 00:17:12,448 --> 00:17:14,992 will require another cultural shift. 310 00:17:15,075 --> 00:17:17,411 And in the view of many who work on this issue, 311 00:17:17,494 --> 00:17:19,163 that shift begins with men. 312 00:17:19,246 --> 00:17:25,044 Until we think of men and women as both caregivers and breadwinners, 313 00:17:25,127 --> 00:17:26,462 we're not gonna get there, 314 00:17:26,545 --> 00:17:29,465 because as long as it's a woman problem... 315 00:17:30,257 --> 00:17:34,219 Then we are reinforcing that stereotype that care is her job. 316 00:17:34,303 --> 00:17:39,558 It'll only be less of a burden on women when men feel comfortable saying, 317 00:17:39,641 --> 00:17:43,562 "I'm going to a parent-teacher conference. I'm not leaving it to my wife." 318 00:17:43,645 --> 00:17:46,106 Or, "I really wanna go to the well-baby check-up. 319 00:17:46,190 --> 00:17:48,859 They're getting their vaccinations. I wanna be there." 320 00:17:48,942 --> 00:17:52,488 The wage gap is not just a woman's issue. It's a family issue.